Sunday, May 27, 2012

Shades

This was Keller on our walk this week...



We're still trying to figure this little man out. He's been doing a much better job of sleeping during the day. However, evenings are still a little rough. I talked with my friend Nicole (a NICU nurse and mom of two) this week, and she mentioned that Keller may be overstimulated, causing him to cry and be upset in the evenings. So we've made a very conscious effort to limit the stimulus during the day. He's been eating, diapering and going back down for a nap the minute we see a yawn or rub of the eyes. The days have been much better, but he still gets a little fussy around 7. Usually, he's overtired and has a hard time settling down for sleep. It's a work in progress.

This week Keller has started babbling more. It's like he discovered he has a voice! He's also given us a few smiles...and I don't think it was because of gas. I haven't been able to catch a photo of one yet! He also has a bad case of baby acne. Good thing we all think he's cute because his face is all red and blotchy. He's already growing out of some clothes. I can't believe I'm already packing up a things just six-weeks after he was born!

On a side note, I went to the gym for the first time this week in about 8 or 9 months. I've never felt more out of shape in my life! I walked for 20 minutes, did a few machines and headed home. Wow! I can't believe last summer we were trekking all over South America and climbing Huayna Picchu!

Friday, May 18, 2012

Lessons I've Learned

This past month, I feel like I've been on a huge learning curve. Here are a few things I quickly came to realize after the arrival of Keller:


*An hour of sleep and a shower have never felt so good. I've never been a great sleeper and generally have a difficult time falling asleep. Not anymore...even a few minutes can feel like heaven.

*I've never felt more out of control in my entire life. I've thrown out the lists, plans and organization. What I do during the day depends solely on Keller...he is in control. I am constantly straighting things around the house to feel like I have some sort of control.

*Coffee is my new best friend. I can down a cup at just about any time of the day. And lunch...did I actually eat today? If I do get a lunch, I'm generally unloading the dishwasher, holding Keller or it's at 2 p.m.

*My brain is not the same...and it may never return. I've always heard of "pregnancy brain" but never fully realized its impact until now. I feel completely absent minded most times. I've gone to Buy Buy Baby three times and forgot our gift cards each time. One time, I took the gift cards but forgot to use them.

*I never fully valued my free time until now. Five, quiet minutes to myself is a treat.

*Before Keller, I never imagined loving someone so much after so short a time period. He had my heart from the moment I saw him. The first month has flown by and it's amazing to see how much he has changed. I love every moment with him and think he's pretty darn cute!

To be quite honest, I have no idea how people go back to work six-weeks after having a baby. I can barely get a shower, brush my teeth and look somewhat presentlable most days...much less be productive.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Keller - 1 Month

Keller you are one month old!



I think we'll keep you...we think you're pretty special. Here are a few memories and milestones from your first month.

You weigh 10 pounds (55%), measure 21.5 inches (47%) and have a head circumference of 38 centimeters (44%). So you are pretty much average right across the board.

You wear size 1 diapers and clothes 0-3 months. For a while, you absolutely hated wet diapers and would cry as soon as you wet. You have gotten more tolerant of wet diapers, and poopy diapers don't bother you at all.

Your sleep has gotten better....sometimes. Generally, you have a good 4-5 hour stretch of sleep at night. You are also sleeping a little better during the day, with a long morning and afternoon nap. There are also several small 30 minutes to an hour naps in between. You have slept in your crib from the first day home. However, you like to nap in your carseat and swing.

Right now, you primarily have 1/2 & 1/2 bottles. You nursed exclusively for the first three weeks, and then we introduced the bottle. You still nurse a few times a day, but it seems to be more of a soothing technique. We introduced the pacifier about a week ago. At first, you were not interested at all. Now, you will take it every now and then, but it almost seems like you figured out it's not the real thing. You have also started trying to suck you thumb. Right now, you are still exploring your hands and generally suck on one or two fingers. I've only seen you get the thumb once or twice.

You still have the crazy hair you were born with, but it seems to have more of a red tint. You love to kick your legs. Recently, you have started grabbing at things (onesies, our fingers, bottles) with your hands. You also grab your hair and pull. Then, you scream because it hurts, but you don't realize you are hurting yourself. When we hold you over our shoulders, you will sometimes head butt us. When you are upset you will head butt us and arch your back. Slightly dramatic!

You do try to hold your head up and look around. You also seem to try and focus on items held in front of you. You enjoy playing on your mat and hitting the objects hanging above your head. I don't think you realize that you are hitting them.

 For the past 10 days or so, you have had major melt downs during various times. You will cry and scream for several hours at a time. At first, we thought it was gas so we tried mycolin drops. Now, we think it may be reflux or colic. The doctor suggested probiotics today so hopefully they will help.

During the first month you had several outings. Your first trip was to Waterloo Ice House for breakfast. Since then we've gone shopping at Buy Buy Baby and Central Market. You also went to Waterloo for lunch, and you had your first road trip to Weimar.

You did not like your first few baths. So far all your baths have been in the kitchen sink. However, during the last bath you didn't cry until the end. Maybe your getting more comfortable with them. You have also gone on a few walks in your stroller. You slept through your first walk. Generally, you doze off about half way through the walk.

This picture cracks me up!


A few funny moments from the first month:
*We've had several open air accidents. The first coming the first weekend you were home. Daddy was changing your diaper in the middle of the night. When he opened your diaper he said, "he's still going." I told him to close it up and let him finish.
*We've also had poo accidents. Around the same time, we were changing your diaper. Daddy had your legs and I was wiping up the mess. Daddy warned me to be careful because I was in the line of fire. Less than 30 seconds later you shot some poo across the room, landing right on daddy.
*The first few weeks, Flash was very disinterested in you. However, he has gained more interest over the last 10 days or so. He likes to lick your feet when we hold you. When you are in your car seat or play mat, he will often come over and sniff. He has even decided to give you kisses on your face a couple of times.
*Keller, you have your own playlist on the iPod. It's instrumental versions of songs by U2, Willie Nelson, Kayne West and others. We have read several books over the first month. And you absolutely hate the duckie book...we have never made it through the entire book!

Keller, you are the light of our lives. You make each day interesting and exciting. You have brought absolute joy to our lives, and we can't wait to watch you grow and learn.

I didn't plan on a wardrobe change, but there was an accident.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Scholarship

Yesterday, we awarded our second scholarship at my old high school. This year we chose Reshma Thomas. She is an outstanding young lady. She moved from India less than two years ago and quickly became involved at school and within the community. She will be attending Texas Lutheran University in the fall, majoring in computer science. Hopefully, our small contribution to her financial need will lead to academic success.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

We Found This

We found this little guy in our yard on Saturday. Kind of crazy! Jonathan grabbed an empty diaper box, and we put shredded paper on the bottom. I had a family last year that has ducks so I called them to see if they would take it in. Unfortunately, by the time I got there the little duck died. They said they saw a mama duck and her ducklings walking near our house earlier in the day. They thought he was only a day or two old.